Whether you believe it or not, there were a lot of occasions in your life when you were only moments away from doing a “threesome”. Perhaps the problem was that during those crucial periods, you didn’t have an idea of the right words to say. According to sex experts, 70% of women, at some point in their lives, dream of doing some sort of intimate play with other women. So if you’re planning a threesome with your partner, here are couple of helpful ideas on how to plan the successful threesome.
Open Up The Idea, And Set The Boundaries
The journey to a successful threesome starts with an honest and open conversation. Just because you already know that 70 percent of women have thoughts of playing with other women, it doesn’t mean that your partner will immediately agree to the idea. If you’re in a committed relationship, remember that the third person (whether she’s the girl you met at the bar, or if they’re professional Canberra Escorts) will only be a fleeting entity or a visitor.
When opening up to the idea, tell your partner that you’re doing this for her. Should your partner respond positively, don’t be too over-excited and instead tell her that you’re open-minded enough to help make this sexual fantasy come true for her (and for you too). Depending on the maturity of both partners, and how long they’ve been together, introducing the subject of a threesome should be quite easy.
Establish The Rules
Once your partner agrees, carefully lay down the rules of engagement. If you get the third person from a bar, or if you got her through an escort service, take time to educate and remind each other about basic health and safety guidelines. Learn the rules about sex play between girls, and let the third individual know that you and your partner truly practice safe sex.
If you get a girl from a reputable escort agency, make sure you both like her, and that she’s fully aware that part of her tasks or services include playing with the couple as a second girl. By doing this, your partner will never feel uneasy or jealous, because she knows that the deal’s purely professional, and after the activity both of you will never see her again (unless you both agree to contact the same girl from the same agency).
Share The Pleasure, And Don’t Be Drunk
Once you’re all set to go, remember that a truly successful threesome leaves everyone happy and satisfied. No one should ever feel like they’re being ignored or left out (nor should anyone feel like they are the centre of attention). The underlying philosophy behind threesomes is about shared pleasure, although at some point one of you is going to be a willing spectator.
And while having a glass or two of wine or beer will be good for loosening things up, going beyond two drinks could wreck the whole episode. Remember that threesomes are a very delicate encounter, thus everyone involved should keep their wits active at all times, so that they can tune in to how each person is feeling, and responding to whatever action is taken (both emotionally and sexually).
Once the threesome is over, discuss the experience with your partner, and find out how she felt during the whole activity. By doing this, both of you will feel closer and extra intimate, because the threesome was something that both of you shared and enjoyed, and perhaps soon, you’d like to call back the Canberra Escorts that you teamed up with in the previous threesome.